Please, please let him be in the top 12!

He sounds like Marc Anthony, but better! I love him and I love what Simon said about the accent…

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Pictorial tag by The Silent Scribbler

This should be fun and challenging…

1. I am…

 

2. I really want to go to…

3. My favorite place is…

4. I live in…

5. My favorite color is…

6. My favorite food is…

7. My favorite thing is…

8. My favorite drink is…

9. My favorite story is…

10. My favorite hobby is…

11. I wish for…

And now I tag anybody who doesn’t have anything better to post in their blog…

 

So what’s new?

With me at least….

A lot of people been SMSing me asking whether I’ve given birth or not. The obvious answer my friends, is NOT. If I could update my blog the second my kid is out, I will… For now, I’m settling in with the pain. I’m not being zen about it and Abu’s been telling me I’m pathetic (WATEVER!!!) but it’s the final stretch of the marathon… If I wanna be pathetic, LET ME!!!

Let’s start with my sleeping habit. I don’t get to sleep properly at night. I don’t get to sleep at all at night nowadays. I’m not complaining tho… Since I work from home until giving birth, I get to sleep anytime I want to. Usually around 11am until 3pm. So to those who wants to call me and tell me about you dreaming that I gave birth last night (Junida, you are not the only person… 3 people SMSed and called with the same dream…), do it around 6pm or 7pm… I don’t entertain calls when I’m groggy and drooling very well. And to those who caught me at a bad timing, my apologies if I don’t give a shit about watever you are saying… Just kno that I still love you people, okay?!

I’m currently preparing myself for the birth… Watching all those birthing videos and stuff. I’m the kind of person who needs to mentally prepare by learning and seeing how it goes. I did the same thing with Khadeeja. From breech birthing to episiotomy, I watch them all. Now, I think if some other pregnant woman wants to give birth, I can be their bidan…

I also have this condition whereby my hemoglobin is too low. How does that affect the birth? If my hemoglobin is too low, the doctor will have to transfuse blood into me. Dalam bahasa yang lebih mudah, I don’t have enough blood in me. Watching all those vampire movies doesn’t seem to help at all… Hmmm…. So, I’m on iron tablets and strict red meat/liver/sayur bayam diet. Weird haaa? Most pregnant women gets high blood pressure. I, on the other hand don’t have enough. Worst case scenario? My sister or my husband or anybody with O+ blood can donate segelen of their blood to me… Anyone???

Baby in tummy is doing fine… She’s engaged but moving very, very actively still. Hence me having all those pains. Baby K? She’s excellent… She now can do the ‘peace’ sign and say ‘pish’. And she kept calling my sister and sister in law ‘adik’… I think it’s because she heard people calling the both of them ‘adik’. So instead of calling them auntie and bibik, she calls them ‘adik’. And once in a while, she will call me ‘kakak’. That’s because my maid calls me ‘kakak’… Funny little girl…

Abu’s been working these CNY holiday. I had to entertain myself. So today, I FORCED myself to walk. At this stage, walking helps to induce labor (according to the doctor). So I went to Subang Parade, Carrefour and RHB to pay my car. That’s a lot of activities for me. The past weeks, the farthest I walked was from my room to my living room, which is only 15 steps away (I counted…). And also, I finally waxed my legs (not that you’d be interested…). It took almost 2 hours for me to finish both legs because I can’t reach those areas near my ankles… But I did it… So, I’m all waxed and set to give birth… The question now is, WHEN??????????? Let’s hope it’s next week…

The Fashionista

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 She now is actively trying to form words. She talks A LOT but in her own language. She loves handbags and specs. Very fashion concious as well. She WILL choose her own baju. She’s got a favourite dress and a favourite baju tidur. SIGH… Anak ku sudah besar…

Compassion and rationality

Another emos entry from me…

I was watching the latest Grey’s Anatomy episode a few days back. It was about a prisoner on death row who suffered from brain herniation (don’t I sound like a doctor????). He was DUE to die in 5 days but could go faster if they don’t treat his brain… How do you deal with this? I mean, you fix his brain and waste all those medicine, and before he could recuperate, he’ll be hanged/lethal injectioned. If you let him die of the brain herniation, he gets the easy way out. So how?

I’m always a firm believer of  capital punishment. Especially those rapists and murderer. A life for a life… As for pengedar dadah, I disagree with the capital punishment imposed on them. Why? Because they are businessmen. If there’s no demand, there will be no supply… The best punishment should be penjara seumur hidup. But for those rapists, they should be publicly stoned to death. Or even better if we cut of their penises and let them bleed to death. Why? Because they did what they did due to NAFSU. Murderers? I have mixed feeling about them. Psychologically, a lot of those who kill, suffered from abusive chilhood. And then you have another group of murderers who are just plain cruel and deserves to get their heads chopped off in public. IMO, those who kill because they are crazy, should be killed by lethal injection. Why? It’s the most humane way to die because it’s like putting an animal to sleep. Let them face God and let God handle them. Those who kill for fun, let them face their fears as we put the tali gantung over their neck and let them wait in fear as we drop them and their necks break. Do you kno that when they get hanged, they don’t necessarily die immediately. When your neck breaks, your blood pressure drops, and it will take a few minutes before you actually die (courtesy from Meredith Grey).

So… Back to the story from GA, the PDR (prisoner – death row) offered his organs to help out this sick kid who needed a new liver and intestines. Meredith was feeling bad for this PDR, while McDreamy went all out against helping him to get the easy way out. I agree with Meredith on this. Either way, he dies. And why waste all those medications on him. And also, the sick kid gets his organs… Murderer or not, I think it is more important to save the kid’s life and worry later if the organs will trigger any ‘killer instinct’…